the mani pedi day with mom is cool too because you can do it once a month salon or home and it will make her feel so grown and one on one will be special also

is get her a baby and clothes diapers and a combination toy that has a highchair crib and changing station together and a bath station. I did this when i was having my youngest. worked great. they mother's their babies while I did my baby. it was so funny because my niece lived with me so I walked in to the 3 older kids breast feeding watching tv one day so funny. 2 were girls 1 boy. all under 4. they do it all the time after that.

She'll be in school

maybe beforehand you and her can have a spa day and go to lunch?