I had my daughter 10 days ago. I am ebf but wondering when to pump. I haven't quite mastered timing yet and only do so once a day. should I pump more? also how do I know my daughter is getting enough to eat? not to mention people say to keep them awake while they feed but she always sleep eats. how do I keep her awake to eat? I feel bad trying to keep her up all the time for eating. please help