So my brother in law, who is 19, got into an argument with their mom because she supposedly kept him awake all night so…

So my brother in law, who is 19, got into an argument with their mom because she supposedly kept him awake all night so he missed his alarm to go pick his daughter up the next morning... So he is blaming her because he is too irresponsibly to actually make himself wake up in the morning... Well he texts my fiance saying that they got into it and he needed someone to crash tonight... alright cool, one night that's fine as long as he cleans up after himself... Wellllllll he just asked my fiance if he could stay here until he "finds a job". UM FUCK NO. I have done everything but sign his damn name on new hire paperwork but he REFUSES to actually get a damn job. My daughter will be here in about 3 months And she matters more than him. period. he is messy, and disgusting and REFUSES to clean up after himself... he smokes weed in my damn house and brings his no good little friends around. Sorry but my daughter will not be around that. period. There is no chance in hell he is coming back here EVER again. It's time he grows the fuck up and stops depending on his grandma, mom, and big brother to take care of him. So done with his immature bullshit. and it's a good thing Jonathan actually agrees with me for once when it comes to him, because I would gladly move back in with my parents until he decided to kick his no good little brother out. I promised I would never make him choose between me and his brother, and I won't. but he WILL choose his daughter over his brother, or we will have major problems.