It's difficult being a new mom and telling a family member no the baby can't go see them by herself because she's sick and then you get a text asking if you just don't want them to spend time with the baby . No that's not it at all I'm thinking of my baby's health , she not a doll or a puppy that can just be carried around where ever maybe after she has her first set of shots then I'll feel a little more comfortable with her going out places . Sorry ladies I just needed to vent a little