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Sarah Drew
Sarah Drew
Мама двоих (младенец)

I'm having a hard time keeping it together mamas.... my husband came home from work and said he had…

I'm having a hard time keeping it together mamas.... my husband came home from work and said he had a bad day (it common in his field especially with customers who complain about every little detail in their bills etc).... he then told me that the business (he and a business partner own it) is struggling financially, he may have to cut the employees hours, he may have to have the one retiring (previous owner of the business) retire early.... and if there was a huge profit last year and he has to pay in a lot of taxes he may have to close the doors (it's a complicated process figuring out taxes)... his business partner is an ass when things like this get brought up, he's more interested in being a socialite and saying he's a business owner than actually completely learning the trade.... they just bought a new building (the needed more room) and they have been working on it during the day, I got informed tonight my husband won't be home until 9 at night now so he can try and get more furnaces in during the day... I am already here alone with the kids all day and he spends maybe 2 hours with them at night 5 days a week Saturdays is a bit more time at home and then Sunday he's here all day... we still have to finish our house remodel (I'm going to do what I can myself to help him out but I'm not very handy lol).... I just feel our marriage may suffer, more than it is we are never intimate anymore (he hugged me tonight for the first time in at least 2 weeks)... I know he needs to do this for the business but wish it didn't come at this price if that makes sense.... I don't want to be selfish... mamas I could use some encouragement, maybe I can do some of the remodel stuff myself (I don't have a lot of faith in myself lol) I just don't want my marriage to suffer

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wisconsinmom

Kelly Leonard

Мама дочки-младенца

I know it's hard but he is putting himself into this business to support you and your family! I'm sure once things settle down with the business it might be easier. Best luck to you 😙

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gypsy.soul2

Elle🌻

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

you guys are a team. you're his crutch and best friend. For better or for worse. life gets tough.. see things from his pov maybe.. he has his family at home and he has his employees who may have a family too.. that'll take a toll on someone.. maybe talk to him.. if the home isn't solid then it could weigh on him.. be his strength momma and remind him you're there to help in anyway you can.. being at home is tough too and he should be reminded of that.. ♡ head up @sarahdrew

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sarahdrew

Sarah Drew

Мама двоих (младенец)

thanks mamas... I just hate seeing his so stressed out, especially when his business partner is so nonchalant about the whole thing.... @gypsy.soul2 the house is definitely liveable, I just need to get the baby's crib n stuff set up, possibly some painting lol and yes all the guys who work there and the secretary have a family well except the business partner .... @wisconsinmom you are absolutely right he is doing this for us... I just wish I could take the stress away

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missing82user

missing82user

В ожидании первенца

Be his strength and he should be yours. You're each other's support and maybe let him know that you still need him, at least in small ways. You're both doing what it takes to keep the household going and let him know you have it hard sometimes too. When things get handled I hope you two can find more balance and keep that spark. I have faith things will be alright momma. Rough patches aren't uncommon💕😘

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sarahdrew

Sarah Drew

Мама двоих (младенец)

thanks @raegenice ... it's good to see so much support on here, that's why I love this app

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