You should get the baby like clothes at least like 9 months or 12 months people don't usually give out those months so you know hell wear it

atleast you're having a boy this time. I felt like with my son I was able to control myself a lot more.. as to my daughter, OMG all the cute girl things just drove me crazy. I even bought a Louis Vuitton mini bag, shoes and belt for her so we could match. Lol I went a little more crazy with her... I guess for my son's birth we weren't 100% financially stable yet..and now my hubby spends like 15k on dinner or wine like nothing so why not on my baby? lol. But just make sure you have the necessary first, you'll feel great about that choice for sure.

yeah thats true @dearanaleigh thats exactly what im going to do im going to save the money for him till after the baby shower to know exactly what i need to get and not go all crazy lol

You should honestly wait until after your baby shower. It is exciting when you see all the cute baby stuff so I totally understand that you want to just go crazy and buy everything you want your baby in. lol. I was there same way.. but try to limit yourself to 1 cute outfit of your choice maybe? A lot of people love to give newborn things at baby showers and you might have to exchange a lot of things that you get. They grow out of everything so fast! The last thing you want is to spend money on unnecessary things that you'll already have plenty of you know? Start your baby a savings account, life savings or get bonds if your bank has them, or something like that if you haven't yet instead. It's not as exciting, but you'll feel great that you're doing something like that for your baby. :)

lol i dont wanna get him to much clothes bcuz i know thats mainly what they give you at a baby shower so i dont even know what to get him myself theira to much cool qnd cutr things to get its overwhelming

every stop I get at the store I can't help but buy my baby something. lol its a bad habit