I wish people understood that getting what a baby...or any person...needs is NOT spoiling. That is…
I wish people understood that getting what a baby...or any person...needs is NOT spoiling. That is being responsible. Long story short, a couple large packages arrived today at our house. My aunt was there to receive them, as she's looking after the kids while I'm here in the hospital.
"Bunny, you're going to have them so spoiled, you'll have to shop like this forever."
...Camiyha will be home in just 2 short weeks. Ajani and I in a matter of days. That's two newborns. We NEED things in BULK, and some things we need in couplets. That's not spoiling. (Don't twist me, I don't work as hard as I do for my kids to lack ANYTHING--I'll get them as rotten as I wanna and dare a person feel any kinda way. But they aren't "spoiled" because they have cribs and changers, and travel systems, & all babies need clothes, diapers, and toys.)
Tahtahme·
Мама двоих (младенец)
...You cant really spoil a newborn anyway.
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
@tahtahme exactly. They sleep and eat lol She thinks I'm spending too much but I don't care. Til she works my hours and pays my bills, her opinion is just that. I respect her, but she cannot decide what the babies have.
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I made a similar post to this a couple of days ago, I so agree
Tahtahme·
Мама двоих (младенец)
right? 😂 I bet you COULD spend more wisely or on cheaper brands, but that's your choice, you are using the products, not her.
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
@peaceinfall she acts like we bought them gold rattles lol We will be taking care of two babies, so some things we had to go and order again. Made sense to us! 😂
Justina·
Мама троих детей
I think when people envy what others have is when opinions become like buttwholes and they ...well pretty much stink!
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
@tahtahme we were MOSTLY sensible lol My splurge was their car seats, each baby has two. (Two cars and a mama who doesn't wanna lug the seats around a lot lol) My husband got goofy with their shoes, which I don't even think babies need but whatevz, he likes it so I love it. 😂
missing225user·
Мама дочки (9 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
@foreveryoung247, yep!
Crystal Young·
do what u feel is in your best judgment.. Dont worry about family comments.. Own your confidence in being a great mom and let them grow to trust you.
Alicia 🌼·
if she means spoiling them with love and the things they NEED then yeah I would say I sure am spoiling them. it's not like you went and bought diamond pacifiers or something.
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@tayek, You Right !!! 😂
Tara·
В ожидании первенца
My mother in law said that to us because we got Deacon a swing. I was like women please it isn't your money so keep your mouth shut. 😂😂 @tayek
Kay·
Мама сына-младенца
Text me ma'am.