thank you @aek91

ooh & socks too

For baby: a couple of outfits, going home outfit, onsies like 2 or 3 & just pack like if you were going somewhere after you leave the hospital pack wipes diapers oh & don't forget to pack baby a couple receiving blankets & a nice thick one & mittens & hats

thank you ladies

oh & chapstick^^

for you, you'll need extra clothes, comfy underwear that you don't mind ruining (because believe me you will ruin them), toiletries, make up ( if you wear it) tooth brush & paste, pads overnight ones, hair ties, hair brush, shampoo & conditioner, & body wash.

there are check lists on Pinterest ... I asked the same question and only got like 2 answers..