I'm going to vent so this is mostly unimportant but I gotta say something somewhere. I'm just so…

I'm going to vent so this is mostly unimportant but I gotta say something somewhere. I'm just so tired of listening to my friend's problems when she won't do anything at all to change her situation. Her and her daughter live with her dad and he's just a jerk but she only bitches about him being a jerk and won't do anything to move out. I've known her a year and a half and she hasn't had a job at all and blames nerve damage in her back but only just now, like in the past month, started looking for a Dr so she can get on disability but honestly she could work a part time job and she just won't. She depends on her bf for everything, but lives with her dad. and her baby daddy refuses to pay child support and she just insists the state won't get it from him. I just can't take it anymore. I have my own problems and its like any time I talk about mine she has to one up me or something. I just can't even reply to her texts now. She told me her bf was going to get her a phone, BC her dad cut hers off (because she doesn't even do housework) and I told her her bf needs to save up so they can get their own place but her response? She sent me a bunch of links to articles on Narcissistic Personality Disorder because she thinks that's what's wrong with her dad. My opinion? she needs to suck up her back pain and get a part time job and get her and her daughter somewhere better. but that's none of my business apparently...