why have family members always got to bring my unborn child into arguments😠 I'm so annoyed!!

@leighamy123, what are they saying? happens to me sometimes as well .. hope you are okay xx

well some of my family members have said alot.about.him but my OH was arguing with his sister about something earlier, nothing to do with baby and she thinks it's okay to bring baby up and say we can't afford to even have a child, jealousy is what it is xx

@leighamy123, that's horrible 😕 my mum always says that I won't be able to look after her and care for her.. I just ignore it and put it as she is in a bad mood.. as long as you know you will do what you can for your child xx

because we live with my OH parents so also said we will be depending on his mam all the time and basically if we need anything we will be scrounging off her! that's not the case at all, she's told.me if we need advice or any help to just ask but the way his sister has made me feel today I feel like I'd rather struggle and do it all myself because it's less hassle for everyone else! Fed up of people not being happy for us @jessicahorn xx

Yeah my mum is exactly the same and when she does help she uses it against us in the future so now me and my OH do everything ourselves and we are so much happier @leighamy123 xx

exactly, I think that's what we will do! Already some of my family members won't be seeing him because of things that have been said, it will be more added to the list if it carries on @jessicahorn xx