OH is really upsetting me atm , he goes to work for us and i love him so dearly for that im going to…
OH is really upsetting me atm , he goes to work for us and i love him so dearly for that im going to sound so selfish now and i honestly dont mean to but i cook i clean i do everything else while hes at work even when hes home i get him cups of tea when he wants one i do what he wants always and maybe its my fault for doing that but bareing in mind there a flight of stairs between our room and everything else im not getting along in my pregnancy like i wouldn't say heavily pregnant but 24 weeks nearly and feeling it! Im still up down up down up down with tea cooking etc to the point my calf muscle are killing me -_- i ask him for a ice pole last night and he moaned about it .... I had heartburn and it was one of the worst bouts of it ive had and he wouldn't get me a ice pole without a fuss .....
Stacey Marie·
Amen sister. I'm in the same boat. I love my oh but my hormones are making me crazy. They don't understand do they? That frustrates me the most. Xx
samantha jordan·
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@stacey804, it so bloody annoying -_- hes got a chest infection now and its like proper bad but wont go to the doctors ... So hed rather me catch it then? Arrrr men just piss me right off at times xx
Stacey Marie·
Exactly. My oh has crohns and gets really bad ingestion. When I have heart burn I'm exaggerating it! It's always one rule for one and different for the other. It feels like he's went back to being a teenager again with his attitude too. I feel abandoned for his friends, but I think sometimes my hormones make it worse. Xx
sp28346·
It's hard. I'm doing everything at home at the moment cos I'm on maternity leave and my boyfriend is still working so I see it as fair... and he moaned about getting me a yoghurt the other day for my sickness. However sometimes he'll drive to the shop for me, or make me tea without me asking or do the dinner etc.. so I think they just get in funny moods like we do and you have to take it with a pinch of salt. ALSO I give him jobs to do so he doesn't get used to me being his slave :p just don't expect it to get done that day!
samantha jordan·
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@stacey804, ahh that would bug me proper -_- if youve never really had heartburn ovi its gonna hurt when you get it so wtf dude :/ not like your mocking him is it your just telling him your in a pain -_- i get all his stress thrown on me its your fault im so stressed sometime i honestly feel to be like okay bye then :/ hormones are off the scale atm!xx
samantha jordan·
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@jem29, hes go mad at having chore to do hes be like why should i blah blah blah its like having a child already sometimes i useally ignore it and get on with it because like you said hes goes to work im at home equals it out but just one time i asked him for something and its was like id asked him to clean the bloody house -_- men xx
sp28346·
@sammy96, it's hard then. mine does moan about housework but then I really do treat him like a child and say I won't do this or won't do that until you've done your chore haha. sometimes I don't wash his underpants ;) you have to be firm and desensitised x
Stacey Marie·
I know, it's like if anything he should understand the discomfort of it but instead he's like whatever until he's unwell and then I'm in the wrong for not running around after him. Grr these men. I'm having one of those days today, I have to pick him up from work at 6 as he doesn't drive. I have a few things I need to get off my chest with him. I've tried to talk to him for weeks now but he only listens to what he wants then blocks the rest out. I feel like I'm at breaking point and all I want is some understanding from him. I love him but christ I need my sanity aswel. Xx