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Courtney
Courtney
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

I understand that this app is for women TTC, already pregnant and post pregnancy.. However, there…

I understand that this app is for women TTC, already pregnant and post pregnancy.. However, there has been TWO separate occasions where a TTC woman has guilt tripped me about posting about my pregnancy and what I understand is TTC is a difficult and stressful time. What I DON'T understand is why a woman feels the need to shame me posting about a pregnancy when essentially, that's what the app was created for...

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lexiiroyal

Lexii Tanner

В ожидании первенца

You shouldn't be shamed for talking about your pregnancy experience... They should look at it as stories they can look forward too. Sounds like those people who shamed you are the ones with the raging hormones lol

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courtney.emond

Courtney

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Haha, yeah. Like, I'm trying to be understanding.. I get its stressful and reading about a bunch of pregnant women and seeing all the baby pictures, but if you can't handle it why are you on this app.. @lexiiroyal

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karnamarie

Karna Marie

Мама двоих (младенец)

I can see what your saying... On one hand you have a women despritly trying to have a child... and on the other hand you have a women who is pregnant any is happy she is but sometimes it's not so fun... I feel the same about TTC women on here and me complaining about lack of sleep or etc with my children... I know they would give anything to have my problem... but it's still my problem

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lexiiroyal

Lexii Tanner

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Yeah exactly...instead of tearing us down, ask us for advice or give us encouraging words and we will do the same! Maybe the app should consider being able to filter if you want to receive pregnancy feed if you're ttc, vice versa. I enjoy helping those who are ttc, the best I can, but maybe it'd be better if some had the choice...for if they're ttc and they only want to see posts from those ttc @preggie_help_android

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courtney.emond

Courtney

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Yeah, I just feel like maybe they should give the app a break if it makes them so angry as to comment rudely on other people's post. Having a baby is WONDERFUL but it is also hard in the beginning. @karnamarie

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courtney.emond

Courtney

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

I think there's an option to only see those, but I'm not sure how full proof it is. I just think if you're upset and stressed enough to shame someone about posting, that you need to close the app and go take your mind off things for a while. @lexiiroyal

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karnamarie

Karna Marie

Мама двоих (младенец)

@courtney.emond The problem is you can pick what you want to see put you can't choose who can see your posts...So if someone TTC has all options open they can still comment of your stuff. Nothing wrong with TTC women it's just if it starts getting to them and they lash out... Completely understandable just not nice. @courtney.emond you are right about that

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courtney.emond

Courtney

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

It's hard because I really do feel for those women.. it's a difficult time, but at the same time some pregnancies can be a difficult time and so can bringing home a new baby. @karnamarie

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lexiiroyal

Lexii Tanner

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Yes. I understand how they feel. I was never supposed to have kids, 4 drs told me I wasn't able to. But I would never hurt someone's feelings because they were pregnant and I wasn't. It depends on the level of maturity a person has. Although I couldn't have kids (or so I thought at the time), I was still over-joyed for those who could.

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courtney.emond

Courtney

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Congratulations to you ! :) @lexiiroyal

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lexiiroyal

Lexii Tanner

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thank you! @courtney.emond

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courtney.emond

Courtney

Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

of course ! :) @lexiiroyal

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