when do women usually start dialating? How far along?

Everyone is different. Some dilate early. Some never dilate on their own. I starting dilating at 38 weeks.

Yes, everyone is different. I was dilated to 2 cm at 35 weeks with my first but carried him to 39w and 5d... My second I was only dilated to 1 cm when I went into labor

everyone is different.... I went in for my c-section at 39 weeks and hadn't dilated at all

I'm 36 weeks and 5days and i haven't dilated at all so far.

I was dialted 2cm and 70% effaced two weeks ago

Started dilating with my first around 35 weeks. But not much.