I was going to bed but then something just crawled under my skin... who else don't like or can't…
I was going to bed but then something just crawled under my skin...
who else don't like or can't stand their in laws or both. (leaning more to mother in law)
like I've been living here for 3yrs and I don't plan on staying in a 3bdrm house with 10 plus my baby on the the way. in a small room where there isn't room for me my fiance and my 2yr old daughter plus baby on the way. I receive WIC, and my daughter LOVES milk I'll get 3 gallons out and they'll be all gone even before I could give her any same with food no one pitches in and my and my fiance always gets blamed for EVERYTHING. (he's the only boy of 2 sisters) so we plan on moving out some time this week or nxt week to our very own place far from here with our own privacy space etc. so he told his mom and she threw a bitch fit and started saying instead of y'all moving out y'all should help make the house bigger -.- like no with 2 kids myself and her son plus everyone else isn't nice. fighting all the time and I hate that environment. like every time we say we're gonna move out she starts telling us not to and before we had no money to move out so we just stayed here now that we do have the money we plan to and she's just bitching -.- its annoying like I'm gonna be 21 with 2 kids in a house where I can't be free or feel comfortable is ridiculous. and to all the food you buy to be completely gone by the end of the week NOT MONTH WEEK. -.-
mimi12·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Giiirrrrllll!!!! I lived wih my mother in law and weny thru something very similar!! I couldnt stand her && can barely tolerate her to this day!!! I would buy food && she'd invite her friends over and cook MY shit and i wouldnt even get it!! We were in the smallest room in the house && when we finally said we were moving out boy oh boy did my man get shit from her!!
Kayla M.·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (25 нед.)
dude she don't even live her she left it to her 3 kids and their kids and tia and tio. me and my fiancé were the only ones working now that I stopped working my bf is the only one and we have to pay rent all the water bills and light bill which is alot he's hardly ever here because he's always working and I'm ALWAYS trying to find something to do just so I won't be around ppl I dislike so much. girl u don't know half the stuff they've done to me. they kicked me out over a pizza I didn't eat -.- because one of her daughters baby dad was moving in and because I supposedly abuse my fiance and they bleached ALL my clothes stuff I paid for not them. its just so annoying like after all that they're lucky I let them see my daughter and I'm still around. I swear when I get my own place they'll have really nothing to do with my and my kids.
Kayla M.·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (25 нед.)
even at that my daughter is the only girl out of 3 grandsons and she treats my baby like crap -.- I know she don't like me but that doesn't mean to be ugly to my daughter who is her son's daughter as well -.-
Alina·
В ожидании первенца
Ugh, who cares what she thinks? Definitely move out, you're going to LOVE the freedom of having your own household. It's never fun living with other people and if there's no need, then don't. They clearly don't respect you guys as individuals or as a family. :/
Kayla M.·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (25 нед.)
that's exactly what I'm saying. like I've told my S/O I'm moving out with or without you I'm done living here and now that we have another baby on the way it has opened his eyes that we need our own place. I honestly don't care what his mom says I've never liked her never will me and one of his sisters used to be friends now we're not we just manage each other and his other sister I just truly hate. I can't stand their kids they're so mean to my daughter ONLY girl but when she fights back they get so mad and starts stuff. so my baby is stuck in the room always because its filthy out there and they start being mean to her. so I can't wait yo have my own place and we'll finally be at peace with each other no more fighting over little things and because of his family.
Alina·
В ожидании первенца
That's really understandable, I hope your SO stands behind you behind all of this, supports, and defends you. It sounds like he's grown up around a lot of women, his mom is obviously very controlling so I hope you guys can get past that and stand your ground. They're family, but YOUR family comes first no matter what!