so I've given up on focusing too much on labor and whether or not I'm in it..I am planning to do a membrane sweep Tuesday so I will worry about it then and give my mind and body time to relax before he comes if the sweep works..tonight I am resting as much as possible and tomorrow we will spend the day preparing and spending time together..I realized that I might actually be making this worse by obsessing so I'm attempting to stop doing that and we will see what happens Tuesday :)