so I've given up on focusing too much on labor and whether or not I'm in it..I am planning to do a…

so I've given up on focusing too much on labor and whether or not I'm in it..I am planning to do a membrane sweep Tuesday so I will worry about it then and give my mind and body time to relax before he comes if the sweep works..tonight I am resting as much as possible and tomorrow we will spend the day preparing and spending time together..I realized that I might actually be making this worse by obsessing so I'm attempting to stop doing that and we will see what happens Tuesday :)