I just wanted to share my experience, I've been seeing so many girls struggling lately and I wish I…
I just wanted to share my experience, I've been seeing so many girls struggling lately and I wish I had someone to talk too when I was struggling.
My boyfriend and I tried month after month to get pregnant, did what the internet said, followed a cycle app, certain positions, etc. and nothing for 8 months.
It was ruining our relationship because I didn't want to have sex anymore, I felt like I couldn't do what women are 'meant' to do, and started going through really bad depression. My boyfriend and I fought all the time, and weren't having sex to love or please eachother, we were only having sex in hopes of getting pregnant. I ended up moving back to my hometown and we took a break. After about a month we met up and went on a vacation to start our relationship back up. We had sex to please eachother, not thinking about getting pregnant in any way.
I got pregnant in the shower, standing up.
Some ways work for some, and some ways don't.
I just want to give my personal experience and hope I can help someone. Don't let sex turn into a job, or a task. Still stay in love with the one you love and as hard as it sounds, don't surround your life around getting pregnant. Hopefully it'll happen when it's supposed too. 💙
Micha Leigh Givens·
That's amazing. my husband and I are done. We decided to throw in the towel yesterday after a big fight and I just don't want to even look at him right now because I feel like I failed him. We're trying to look past this. It's hard going through 2 miscarriages and then getting stuck in the middle of 'do I want one and go through another possible miscarriage?' and 'I want a baby so bad, we have to keep trying!' It's evolved into a lot of stress and tears everyday.
Chelsea·
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@mlgh92, I felt like I failed him as well. But it's not your fault and you have not failed him. I truly believe all the stress of miscarriages and fear of miscarriages makes it so much harder to get pregnant. We don't need to be this stressed, especially trying to get pregnant. I hope you can figure out what you want, I understand completely. I was done when I left, but once I was alone I realized all the things I had also put him through, and realized baby or not, he's the one I'm absolutely in love with.
Rachel Thacker·
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Agree!! My husband and I tried for a very long time. We gave up the fact and it ruined our sex life too. We MAYBE had sex twice a month. And then we got a positive pregnancy test. It doesn't matter how many times you get down, if it's meant to be it will happen. NEVER GIVE UP. Such a wonderful message, thank you!