You know My fiancés mom acts like I'm responsible for him alone and she isn't so she is expecting me…

You know My fiancés mom acts like I'm responsible for him alone and she isn't so she is expecting me to shell out money for a lawyer and pay it all myself wtf ever I love him but he needs to stop violating probation simple as that he may have just been driving trying to find a job but he knew he was on probation for three different things and that they would violate him over this but yet she can't put money in the pot for his lawyer we are trying to see if we can get him out and his court stuff reset till next month and by then all his stuff will be paid off and he won't have to deal with it hopefully but I can't afford a lawyer with 400 dollars what's 400 dollars gonna do I swear stressed out and annoyed