okay ladies tell me if I'm over reacting... me & my mom we're just going over the things I need to…

okay ladies tell me if I'm over reacting... me & my mom we're just going over the things I need to get my child. it's small things like socks & pacifiers but anyways. so my bf has his way of wanting to do things and I have my way. we will discuss it when the time comes but ultimately he knows it's gonna go mamas way regardless lol I'm trying to hear him out with a lot cause it's his child just as much as mine. well one thing is pacifiers he claims his son didn't use them.. if it's true or not idk cause I wasn't there... anyways so my mom just had the nerve to say she out ranks him and what she says goes... um excuse me? this is not your child. then she brings up my sister who has been a single mother since the very beginning of her pregnancy and felt the need to compare the 2. she said if she's gonna have some financial responsibility she should have some say so. pause.. who said you were gonna have any financial responsibility? mama & daddy got this. trust me! just because you had to step in where my sister's bd didn't doesn't mean you'll have to with me. I don't understand why she's being so negative. I ask you for advice not to try to be responsible for my child and I damn sure didn't ask you to over step me and Andre'.