Ugh my fiance is so concerned with "trying to have fun with his life right now" and not at all concerned about the fact that we STILL do not have a crib or changing table, or god only knows what else. I'm getting shit for talking about how we need these things but when I give him shit about buying ammo for a gun he doesn't even own, I get "you don't control our finances, so stop worrying about them. it stresses me out." I'm sorry how do you think I feel right now?? you're not even home and there's still a ton of shit that we need to get before the babys born and you're worried about ammo for a gun you don't have. the only reason I haven't gone to buy a crib and changing table is because you keep telling me you want to build the crib instead of buying it and I don't want to spend the money we have, I'd rather try to start saving our money. oh wait, I'm sorry, your money.