personal question: is it normal to bleed during sex after pregnancy? I was 4 weeks PP and my SO and…

You probably weren't healed all the way. Either internally or externally.

@valerie_jean, that's what I was afraid of. SO wouldn't stop pressuring me about it so I finally gave in and I'm just extremely frustrated that I did. I told him he better not even think about it until I'm cleared at my 6 week appointment now. hopefully it's okay by then

you're supposed to wait 6 weeks PP before putting anything in the vagina. I would have told my hubby to take care of himself if he tried to pressure me. he shouldn't be risking your health like that. your uterus isn't healed and your cervix is still open at 4 weeks, very susceptible to infection.

@kaceyt, I'd tell him that all the time! "no its not as good as p***y" he's just a fucking dick. he does not care

are you married? I wouldn't stay with someone who doesn't care about my health.

@kaceyt, no we're not married. yeah idk. I do wanna leave him sometimes but he does help out a lot with baby I don't wanna tear the family apart.

I know I only know this little part of your life, but I'd question how much I really meant to him of he disregarded my health just because he wanted p***y. I hope he treats you better than this post makes it seem :(

Tons of people have sex before their six week appt try not to worry too much its normal your body is just trying to go back to pre pregnancy