Hate when my mom forces me to make me choose between her and what she wanna do and the father of my…

Thats awful... I can't believe that. Your baby is not her baby. She shouldn't be acting like that. Keep standing your ground. The father of your baby has every right to help decide events like holidays for your child. Please be careful. Im praying for you darling.

It's just a lot she makes him look like a bad person yes he has his issues everybody do but he does a lot for his child and I wouldn't like if he choose to do that to me and because I stand by what's best for my child she gets angry and try to make me choose and say I'm afraid of him...I would understand if he is not playing his part but he is and she knows that @mommyrai

As long as he is doing his part that's all that matters. My SO mom would bad mouth me & make me seem like I was no good. To both him & my family. My SO finally put his foot down & told her he loved me & that I wasn't going anywhere & that she better put a stop to it. She would make him choose her to me a lot. Maybe you need to sit her down with the father & have a talk in a calm environment. Lay it all out. Cause in the end the person that matters the most is that little girl & everyone involved needs to understand that (you & the father have that down). Its your baby & his baby NO ONE elses. No one else matters. & what I have to tell his mom when she tries to tell me what to do during my pregnancy is "if you're not carrying my child then you have no say."

Let her know you are taking what she says into consideration but ultimately its not her decision.

I tried having a calm conversation with them before but my mom will go off and get angry and yell and scream and put him down...I had numerous meetings and that's how she acts and I can't cut out my baby father cause he has been there never once I called him and he not there I'm on bedrest and he is the one that comes and bathes me not my mom but to her he does nothing and he is this bad person and it frustrates me cause this is my mother and this is my child father and I don't wanna have to keep my child away from any one of them because they can't be atleast civil and understanding @mommyrai

He tries to talk to her with respect and try to work with her but he is not gonna stand for anyone making decisions for his child that he thinks is not best and I'm not gonna fault him for that because I would have been the same way and I told my mom if he was to take the child from me she would cause a war between both families so I don't think it's fair she is trying to get me to do that to him @mommyrai

I know how u feel

It isn't fair at all. & you shouldn't have to keep the baby away. I can't believe that she is doing that. Being a mother I mean I would think she would understand & know what it felt like to have it happen to her... She needs to put herself in your position. You & the baby father sound like great parents & you do not need to cut him out he has done everything possible for you both. Maybe you need time away from your mom for the remainder of your pregnancy. You don't need this stress especially during your time of bedrest.

Yea I am that's why when she kicked me out I didn't fight it I'm just gonna spend the rest of time at my baby father house cause it gets stressful dealing with her when it comes to him and the baby so I'm taking a break from it all hopefully she will have a change of heart @mommyrai

I hope she will to for her grand daughters sake. You're little girl is lucky to have you & her daddy to look after her

Thanks @mommyrai

This is just ridiculous. She needs to let you be the mother to your child. You need some time away from her. Hopefully things will get better.