opinionss; Okayy so my friend textdd me lastnight saying how long do drugs stay in the placenta. i…
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Okayy so my friend textdd me lastnight saying how long do drugs stay in the placenta. i said 3 months or soo whyy?? she said because i slipped up last month when my grandpa diedd. i said on what? weed or dope/meth? she said dope. im like what the fuckkk morgann. Emma can taste that shit. I need to mention she is due in march. she said what will happen i said if they test your placenta they come right then and take your baby. i don't know how true this is but this is what i have heard. she said will devin be able to take the baby then soon ill get her back. i said probably idk he doesn't have a good living environment he might not even he the dad and hes a former addict as well. shes like im freaking out blah blah. honestly this makes me sick to my stomach where writing this i am in tears when she first found out she was pregnant like she even says i was more of a mother to the baby then she ever was i made sure she ate good i took her to hospital sometimes because she would stall on finding a obgyn. she never went to prenatal checkups. she kept lying to me telling me she is clean. but turn to find out she "slipped" up last month. im so upset and dont know whether to stay out of it or call cps on her. this is a tough decision now that im a mommy i cant imagine how people can be so selfish. i tried for my baby for two years and she knew this when she found out she was pregnant still smoking and shooting up that dumb shit. i told her she is taking her blessing for granted when there is people who cant have babies or have a hard time getting pregnant.
what should i do? Call or stay out of it?
missing329user·
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Call. Don't stay out of it. That baby cannot fend for itself.
Jessica·
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Call. The baby is innocent. If she's willing to do that to her body while bearing a child, she's most definitely STILL going to do it when she has the baby, which is a horrible environment for a helpless child to be in. If you stay out of it, you are only enabling the behaviors.. Please call for the sake of the baby.
Laura·
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call that's ridiculous selfish and reckless how can she do that to her baby !!!! the baby receives everything you receive !! I can't imagine doing something like that to my princess ):
Nadia Jones·
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I agree! Call! Because if she's doing this while pregnant I feel like it's only going to worsen when she has the baby.
Cheyenne Mullis·
Honest opinion, my fiancés cousins are hearing impaired and one is completely deaf because their mother did dope why pregnant. I would call her in to cps. The kid shouldn't have to go through that because the mom "slipped up"... I would feel like I'm not doing the right thing because a soon to be mommy if I know another baby could be in danger because I mad the decision to stay out of it
Elsa·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (26 нед.)
Honestly CALL. The baby will end up with serious problems if you don't call. The baby is innocent and the baby does not deserve that at all. I've worked in a hospital where I have seen babies born from dope/alcohol/meth/ addicts and the babies come out shaking terribly because they are going through withdraws and that's the worst part. Please help that innocent baby. God will thank you.
mareesa richie·
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she lives in amarillo now so about 5 hours away i have no idea where she lives i only have text messages. this breaks my heart so bad guys i dont even know where to start im messaging a family friend on fb she works for cps to see what all i am able to do. like i was telling my bf its not the babies fault her gpa died she doesnt deserve that. but yall are right i am deffinantly going to call. my mom told me to just stay out of it but i dont think i am anymore. i used to smoke with her i smoked for like 3 months last yr febuary-mayish. because i gave up on myself and almost lost my 6 1/2 yr relationship for it then i started to go to church got baptized and finally got pregnant. i just gave up on everything and im so glad i blocked all those old friends they have no way to contact me. i am a mommy now . but she is truley an addict. she shoots that up and herion while pregnant! as her baby is moving!! i cried in front of her begging her to stop while she was big and pregnant she said i cant mareesa i cant. i said plsss for ur baby pls stop. ive seen people die and get killed off these things and i hate drugs!!
mareesa richie·
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i know guys this is making me tear up what if that babygirl ends up somewhere worse and its becauss of me!? ive known people in foster care etc and that got raped and things the world is so scary. she always told me she wants me to have her but i financially cant and i feel guilty for this im only 20 about to have my first.
mareesa richie·
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@m.bullock, @jessica415 @princess_intheoven16 @nadia825 @babyreynolds @queenelsa0408
Elsa·
Мама сына (5 лет), беременна (26 нед.)
If you don't say anything. You will feel guilty your whole life. God will thank you
mareesa richie·
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i know he will. im trying to save one of his creations. thank yall ladies so much.
Kristi·
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If she keeps " slipping up" and gets a habit she will end up having withdrawals without the heroin and the baby can die from the withdrawals...
mareesa richie·
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heres some the convo
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mareesa richie·
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i know and she on top of that continues to smoke ciggarettes i know some ladies do but she does that on top of these heavy drugs. she would stay in dope houses etc.. she wouldnt take prenatals go to doctor appointments , she waited till the last minute to get medicaid or wic. she didnt take it seriously. and it makes my blood boil inside.
Amanda·
Ima be real with you. Babies who go in the system get adopted much quicker than older kids. If baby doesn't have a family member stable enough to take him/her, baby will be much better off being taken now than later. Addiction is a serious thing. She didn't stop for pregnancy, she won't stop afterwards. I've shadowed at KCSL and when visiting a foster care, they had just gotten a 7day old boy who was recovering from his addict mother. Poor thing slept and shook the whole time. Baby was in foster care until the adoption went through, so about a week. But yes, there are horrible people in the world and some foster care horror stories have happened and will continue to happen because the world is full of sin. BUT if the mother is addicted to drugs, what kind of scum will be in and out that baby's life? Rape and molestation doesn't wait for an age. And the kind of people who will be trekking through there will be no angels I'm sure. Not trying to throw her under the bus, but I'm saying the greater danger is not giving the child a fighting chance to get into a good home and away from the drug life.
mareesa richie·
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your very right thank you for educating me more about how the system works and your right there is bad everywhere i just need to trust god. life is full of sin and sometimes we cant get away from it but we most certentley can try. im talking to a lady i know that works for cps to see what all i can do since i only have text messages. and your also right molestation doesnt have no age. i just need to pray about it and trust in god he knows what he is doing
mareesa richie·
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on top of this she has clamedhyia gonerreha and trictitosis sorry idk how to spell these stds😭😭
gerrika·
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Oh wow yes she need to see a doctor & also get herself together for the sake of her health & just call cos on her it's some type of way they can put her in a drug treatment program so she can work on getting things better in her life & for the bby oh my what a horrible story I just read here this making me tear up..to see someone so young like this @mareesan
mareesa richie·
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i know it makes me so sad and these are my old friends from middle school i started tlkin to them a yr ago again and this is where they where jumpin motel to motel and dyin and gettin locked up over these things. i was that one who hungout with them no judgment and would pray with them take them to church with me. i did it with them for a few months a year ago they where like mareesa how did you just put it down i said the power of prayer. let me show you our holy god i would take them to church. some are just very lost right now, and dont know no better. i know it was my calling to be in dangerous sitations and pray with prostitutes etc to stick up to the big pimp etc. to preach the word of god in a place full of satan and sin. i prayed to god lord help me see thru ur eyes i look up i saw demons walking around then i knew it was time to help as many souls as i could by preaching the word of god and giving him all the glory. @rika25
mareesa richie·
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my boyfriend of almost 7 yrs wasnt having it he didnt support my decision on hanging out with them he knew they where bad news i felt differnt otherwise i know i put myself in situations to
mareesa richie·
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where i should be dead right now but i knew god was right there . i hungout with them for 5 months then i said okay god i need to go back to my boyfriend and family this is too toxic for me i know you have ur hands on them my time is done i cut all tyes with them and said lord pls watch them and help them understand its not me being mean its me having to protect myself and my well being. i got bapitzed and got pregnant the same day. after being told i wouldnt be able to get pregnant without doctors help. i feel really blessed but my heart still aches for the lost souls.
gerrika·
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& yes yhu did the right thing I see yhu tried to help them but they don't want the help yhu can't help others if they don't want to help them selves....God is good all the time amen @mareesan
mareesa richie·
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yess and i had to come to realize that instead of blaming myself. i had to put my safety my well being and what makes me happy first without thinking im being judgmental or selfish. god has a plan <3 @rika25