Is it wrong of me to protect my children against their fathers lifestyle? He drinks a lot and sleeps…

I would find things that y'all can do together and co parent. That way they don't have to go with him but they can still see him.

No you have to do what's right for your kids even if that's keeping them from their father

@junesmommy15, exactly!! I like how you think

I think that a great idea. I know you don't want to complete stop them from seeing their father. My dad was like that and my mama stopped him from seeing me and we have the worst relationship now.

@emily18234

I've tried to find things to co-parent but he chooses to drink and other things instead. I'm at my breaking point.

your not wrong. I get judged by my family because my mother was with a drug dealer, always going out now, disagrees with my religious beliefs, talks bad about me in front of my children, to my husband and all of my family. So my mother or nobody in my family is allowed to take my children unattended. they can come to my house to see them. but your doing what's best for your children.

Yeah he is very very verbally abusive always tells me I'm a fat worthless cunt and a stupid bitch in front of my children. And when I tell him to stop cussing and saying that stuff in front of the kids he just gets louder and continues. He always tries to play this victim and I've never done anything to him except not want him to go out and party when we were together. And now his family is judging me for trying to keep my kids in a safe environment with people who don't want that lifestyle

Everyone in his family drinks. Especially everyone that lives up at his moms. They drink every weekend