idk why ive convinced myself that staying in this relationship is ok...that being unhappy is okay.,…

If you want to talk it out with someone who went through similar, I'm always available :) It sucks, hun, to be in that situation. I'm sorry you have to experience it

it does suck, i just want to cry...i want to think good things and be happy with him and i dont want to think hes a horrible person...i want to leave i want to stay i want a good life for my daughter i want to believe i can do that with him idk how ill feel, ive left him once but not with a baby involved... our baby...im just crushed... i want him to change and im scared to leave and be alone and to come back to be with him and be miserable again...i wanna put my foot down and say enough is enough and maturely go our separate ways but idk how it will work, if i tried to leave with our daughter idk what he'd do...i dont want to think hes a bad dad or bf but whats he proved otherwise...im seriously all over the place a nervous wreck right now @s_r_z_15

i feel like i can never be the same after all of this, i keep thinking how it will affect my daughter, how he will manipulate me into thinking its my fault or taking our daughter away is worse then any thing hes done to me...just like wen i left him the last time, he said i broke his heart and that ive done the worst thing ever and he'd change and be good to me, a year later its all the same, people will look down on me when i just want to be happy and have peace and clarity for my daughtet

why should i have to walk away with nothing ....he should have to be that person he promised to be....

To me, hun, it sounds like he's very manipulative and knows exactly how to get you to do what he wants. I doubt he's really sorry and willing to change...otherwise he wouldn't have continued it. Leaving him would be best, in my opinion, while allowing him visitations if he proves he's working to change. It'll be hard...but it'd be the best choice to do while pregnant and raising a newborn. PP depression is bad enough without his additionals added into the mix.

And, think of it this way. You'd be losing him as a lover, boyfriend, husband, fiancé, or whatever...but you'd be gaining the sweetest little bundle of joy who will look to you for everything. She'll look to you for safety, food, changings, and guidance later on. Ask yourself this: if you were to look into the future and put your daughter in the position you're currently in, how would you tell her to handle it? @supermom1104

my daughters already three months old, hes put his hands on me three times since ive had her, he will make me so mad and say the worst stuff that i want to kill him and then i end up just hurting myself because hes bigger stronger, i shouldn't try to fight with him but he antagonizes me so badly...doesnt excuse him putting his hands on me or the mental and emotional abuse i endure @s_r_z_15

Leave, abuse gets worse!

Ask yourself what reason do you have to stay?

leave you have to leave don't worry what other think or say . it's not healthy for you to be with him . @supermom1104

@peaceinfall, thats all i can think is it will get worse bfore it gets better, already hes so possesive, mine this mine that, youre not leaving with MY daughter @peaceinfall i just wanna go but sadly the only place i can go is another state

sometimes we get along so great but i cant keep holding on to that little bit of faith @marie_xo @carlitojrmami

@supermom1104, yes please let go it's best for you and your daughter . he is a very bad influence too

he is, he doesnt pay much attention to her when hes here he just plays video games and smokes weed, thats all thts on his mind @carlitojrmami

Just know that there are SO many men out there willing to treat you right, why settle for less? ???