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I'm right with you. My SO has such a weak stomach he's going to have a hard time during delivery. He's so sweet and says he'll do his best but I'm worried about him.

yup. I think guys figure since we've done all the work, we need to figure out what's best for us. I asked my SO if he would be OK not in the OR if they have to put me under again and it really didn't phase him. both of us are just focused on making the delivery go as smooth as possible, even if it's something one of us may not be particularly happy with

@lostinct82mj, he wants to be there and I think he'll be fine he doesn't have a weak stomach but when it comes to making the decisions it's all up to me, which I don't mind but I want his input too.....I want him to be a part of all of it

@emily18234, but we didn't get into this on our own and he is the father I feel he should help me figure some of these things out .....I'm glad he wants to do whatever I want to do but I want his input, but all he says is its up to me.....I wanna talk about it and figure it out for both of us, not just me. ....

I get that. but guys dont. don't take it personally

@emily18234, I'm trying not to and I'm hoping by talking to him more as time goes on he will come around, I think it's just all so new to him, but it's new to me too lol

I know. somethings are new to me as well. I'm having a panic attack thinking about the epidural and he just thinks of it as a needle. they dont get how much really goes into labor and delivery for us

@emily18234, I'm just hoping I can make him understand :) I'm only 14 weeks so I've got some time to get him on board :) I hope lol

yeah, I don't think guys really register there's another life coming until like the delivery room lol

@emily18234, I'm hoping it's a little sooner than that lol but I know I can handle it myself too but it would be nice for him to throw in his two cents lol