OK mama's at my next appointment I will be a day away from being 18 weeks do you think they can tell me then gender then

They should mine told me I had to wait till 20 weeks and I found out at 16 weeks when I saw my actually doctor and we're confirming it at our next appointment in 2 weeks:)

They can, but if they'll give you an ultrasound is the question. I found out the gender of my baby when I was 15 weeks & 3 days.

Yes absolutely. I found out mine 2 days ago and I'm 18 weeks

They told me mine at 15 weeks, so it's possible.