is it ok to plan my own baby shower?

Absolutely. I planned my own :) @beboogey

it's actually perfect in my opinion I'm planning mine still doing things but this way I'm sure it's going to be the way I like it to be

im thinking of doing mine also

My Mom said it was tacky, but she's totally old school and traditional... she told me to at least have a friend listed as the "host."

I planned and paid for.Mine, cause I didn't trust that I'd even get one, so I just did it hahaha