I can't decide if I want to have another C-section or vaginal birth, everyone is giving me their…

I though you don't get a choice unless. it's needed

I had a c section with my first and my doctor ask what I preferred @noemysmom

Ohh why don't you do a vbac!!!

😄you should it'll totally be worth it

I e been hearing long labor stories that's all

my 1st was vaginally with forceps, my 2nd emergency csection...my doc gave me a choice, too. He also gave me a paper with all the pros and cons of VBACs and csection after a csection. I'm scared too, but I've decided to try a VBAC. Go with your gut and don't let anyone sway you to what they think is best.

Sorry, I didn't say this is my 3rd, lol

I also have had surgery on my back almost 7 years ago, a lumbar shunt which I frankly get sharp pains in my back or lower back which is another reason why I'm scared of having to push @bubblebeck @noemysmom

I had the same problem we finally decided to go with a vbac but I was so scared of goin over so we have a back up csection scheduled for 39 weeks if he has not certain on his own part of me is hoping he is here before that but another part of me is still scared and just hopes he will wait for the csection

I have slight scoliosis, but haven't had to have surgery. My back locks up 1-2 times a year. I can imagine how you feel. I hope all goes well for you and your LO.