*(ADVICE NEEDED)* So my fiancé and I have had a tripped planned to go with my entire family to…
*(ADVICE NEEDED)*
So my fiancé and I have had a tripped planned to go with my entire family to Mexico this upcoming September from a Wednesday- Monday.. And even tho our little one was a surprise we are still planning on bringing her if we have doctors approval.
Everything is booked and paid for.
And has been for months now.
And just a month ago i ask my MIL in case we don't get approval from the doctors because our baby might not be old enough to travel to another country and might not have all her vaccinations necessary to travel, we asked if she would be able to watch her, and she agreed... Now with that being said she knew about our trip a month in advance when just in the last 3 weeks my fiancés brother and his girl announced that they are engaged.. And for while their date was in the air.. But ended picking the Saturday right in the middle of mine and my fiancé's trip to Mexico...
He is expected to be in the wedding.. And now his mom is saying we need to cancel our trip so my fiancé can be in his brothers wedding..
I am furious because my entire family is going and we had this tripped planned for a year now.. And cant get a refund at this point.. And his brother refuses to change the date... So my fiancé is caught in the middle. He either goes on this trip we had planned or goes to his brother's wedding.
Mind you my MIL has been planning and helping his brother but refused to say anything about our trip dates to his brother and girl when the were debating on their certain wedding date decision. This is the very first trip we will be going together since our 3 year relationship.. All is paid for and I'm just beyond upset his brother refuses to change the date.. And is going to probably ruin our one and only trip together! With a little one we wont be able to travel for a long time.. And no one seems to get where I'm coming from...
I need your impute ladies... Help me...
GinaG·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I totally get it but i mean once their mind is made up you can't really ask them to change their wedding date because then it looks selfish on your part like what's more important a vacation or his brothers wedding you can plan another vacay but he isn't gonna have another wedding. I know it sucks but since your mom didn't want to speak up and you must not be close enough to him to speak up on it you have to sacrifice your trip 😩
GinaG·
Мама двоих (младенец)
There's just no way you won't look like the selfish wife even of your husband asks himself smhv
Misty·
В ожидании первенца
Tell her you will go if someone reimburses you. :)
Darian·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (29 нед.)
@machelle137, yeah if we ask them to do that they would have basically paid for their entire wedding by then...
Darian·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (29 нед.)
@ginag918, we have basically paid the amount of a wedding on this trip. And we wont get anything refunded. And has been planned for an entire year.. On top of that we have a baby on the way.. Our next vacation will be when she is a teenager.. While his brother and girlfriend have been on many paid trip thanks to her family. They've never paid for anything. I guess ill just look selfish then. Cause im not leaving my family vacation for his family. His brother was a drunk and has never been at any of my fiance's important events.. So i'll take my Daughter. And he can make up his own mind.. But either way he is screwed.. Cause he looks like the bad guy. I dont get along with his brother or mom. And i wouldnt expect my MIL to stick up for us. My fiance and i already had to reschedule our wedding cause it wasnt convenient for his brother's girlfriend.. So thats also why im mad... So we offically have called off planning our wedding cause its never ok for them
GinaG·
Мама двоих (младенец)
wow then I say yea you and baby go on vacay and fiance can deal with his brothers wedding since it's not like they will be devastated if you're not there lmao smh
GinaG·
Мама двоих (младенец)
guess I should be happy my man and his bro don't really talk and the other is only 18