swear people don't care if they hurt your feelings someone honestly wanna say why I'm still sad…

They will never understand. I've never had a miscarriage, but I knew I would have been devastated had I lost my daughter. I would have been crushed. My heart aches for you angel mommies. It's a pain I can't imagine. Don't let other's ignorance get you down. Your baby was real. Your baby was loved. ❤

@unbecomingme, thank you and its a pain that don't ever go away and a pain I would never wish anyone to go through

My sister had 2, years ago, and she now has 4 healthy, thriving children. But she very rarely talks about her angels. And when she does there is still pain. Yall are so very strong.

My first miscarriage, and I remember it like if it was yesterday

I'm in the same boat I'm happy that this pregnancy has gone so well, but my little girl I lost will always be my little girl and I will always celebrate her memory

@unbecomingme, I don't talk about mine finally opening up about my miscarriage but it's still very painful and @lisa155 true mine was 2 years ago and it feels like it happened yesterday

I didn't mean to say that in a negative way. I never want someone to feel like they HAVE to talk about it, just that they can. Because that baby was so very real. ❤ there is no shame in talking about that baby, but I hope shame never keeps you from talking about that baby either.

@lynnbinn11, I do too I celebrated my baby first birthday last year and again this year I will celebrate my baby 2nd birthday

@unbecomingme, you didn't say it in a negative way

this would be mines third birthday, and I will continue to celebrate as long as I feel I want to. it's a pain that never goes away. you just learn to deal with it a little differently

They are just ignorant people that weren't taught to keep their big o mouths shut if they don't got nothing nice to say. I lost my first Babygirl in 07 and gave birth to a preemie boy in '11 and now currently pregnant with a little girl. I still think about my 1st little girl. Wonder what ifs how she would be. It's a pain I don't wish upon no one and hopefully that dumb person that had the nerve to say such a thing to you never experience the pain we mamas have to deal with. Everyone heals differently. Shame on her.

@lynnbinn11, true the pain never goes away you learn to deal with it finally dealing with the pain

@izaid_mommy, true and I always think and wonder how my baby would have been and I ignored the person ain't answer them just walked away

That's good! You shouldn't have to drop down to their level.

@izaid_mommy, I ain't I was like they so lucky they don't ever have to feel this pain or understand what I'm going through