Do any of you other mommies who have just started the journey of two under two, feel as if you've done something wrong when the older sibling is taking time to get used to the new baby? My son is 17 months, and our daughter is now 3 days old, every time we try to introduce them to each other he pushes her out the way.. I know he's not used to her, and he doesn't understand that's his little sister.. But it just breaks my heart every single time like I shouldn't have done it. 😭💔
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Thanks everyone! I'm glad I'm not the only one!
Yeah. My step son still asks if the baby is staying and it's about to be one month since I've had my son. It's a struggle; but you'll get through it momma ❤️
It's really hard. My son is four and disabled so with many things he has the mind of a one or two year old. I cried yesterday bc I could tell how different it felt for him now that the baby is here After time it gets easier but it'll always feel like some how you feel like you short changed them. Just a part of being a mom.
trust me it's normal. he'll learn to love her. my sister is 3 and when my baby sister was born she wouldn't even look at her or go near her. but now she loves her more than anything in the world❤
@peaceinfall, trust me he doesn't get any less attention, if anything he gets more because I want him to know I'm not pushing him away. I include him with everything we do, diaper changes, feedings, etc.. I think I'm just worrying too much. @anap1012 he does give her kisses, but only when I tell him too.. I think I'm just paranoid, like being a first time mom all over again lol
It's ok he'll learn to love her! My babies are 17 months apart too. My son gave her kisses when I told him to but other than that he paid no attention to her. To this day he doesn't really want her touching him but he does go up to her and kisses her because he wants to. I know they love each other. It may not seem like it now but they'll be the best of friends one day trust me. It'll get better :)
lol @mommygrant_xoxo ur not the only one. my first born Bisma always hits her little sister Hiba...... out of love..... out of jealousy.... lol but still loves her little sister... they are a year and 7 months apart so yeah.....