learning to try and focus on myself and trying to feel genuinely happy with myself and appearance…

learning to try and focus on myself and trying to feel genuinely happy with myself and appearance want to be happy when I look in the mirror and except the flaws I do have that are permanent like the scar on my chest (hence to why I don't post pictures or if I do they are head shots or body shots so you can't really see it)and fix the ones I can like weightloss ,and finding myself...not easy when I'm constantly comparing myself to other women who seem flawless on the outside and our beautiful....all it does is break me down