my boyfriend and I have been together going on 4 years. We live here with my mom.

I had my first at 18. unplanned, and I never intended to be a mother. but now I wouldn't change it for the world! how does your other half feel about it? do y'all have a strong relationship?

sorry for being so chatty, just trying to get some advice.

might I add that I'm 19, and being a mother is something I've dream of for years. I've been taking care of my mother since I was 16 due to her illness. her time is getting closer by the day. But, I need her here for me. I can't imagine her not being here, and not getting to have that bond with us. Plus the joy it'd bring her. she has asthma, emphysema, and COPD. she's 50 years old, and can't even get outta bed. I worry myself to death thinking she won't make it, or I'll be an ill young parent. but, I don't wanna have a baby for the wrong reasons..

I wouldn't say childish, every woman wants her momma there to experience it with her. you just need to make sure it's really what you want Because once she's gone, the child is still a real responsibility (of course you already know that, but just for the sake of saying.)

awww no :(

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