Short Rant.... SO is continually having mixed feelings about having a child. Not only mixed feelings…
Short Rant....
SO is continually having mixed feelings about having a child. Not only mixed feelings but mostly negative thoughts. I thought we were passed this and he even talked it out with my mom and some of his close friends. But now he's just bringing ugly thought into mind. He has all of these what if like what if we have a child with special needs ugh please😒. Sometimes I just want to tell him to go away.
Miss Joseph·
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is that his first?
Desaray·
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Yea😔
JaNelle 👑💕·
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if it's his first, that's definitely understandable although it can get a little frustrating. my SO was the same way for a while but as the weeks progressed, he fell in love with the thought of having a baby. so it may just take a little time for him to adjust.
Desaray·
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@maddiesmommy22, I get it he is scared but I'm just so over him being scared. I wish he would go be scared somewhere else
JaNelle 👑💕·
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@desi720, I know exactly how you feel. the first trimester is so iffy & you're already paranoid about a million & one things. maybe it'll help if you just talk to him about.
Desaray·
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@mommytobe0703, honestly it didn't bother me in the beginning but now it's starting to. I honestly feel like he doesn't want a baby. He did say it was bad timing in the beginning but I thought we were past that he started improve now back at square 1. But your right il stay away from it and try my best to ignore it
Desaray·
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@mommytobe0703, exactly he can be really selfish when he is in his feelings he doesn't care about anyone else's feelings. @maddiesmommy22 we talked so much and made up and everything was fine now he is back in a funk with all this negativity we didn't tell his parents yet they will be happy maybe that will help him.
Desaray·
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@mommytobe0703, thanks for being so kind
Desaray·
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Thanks girls for your kind words and ideas. I was probably going to sob in my pillows tonight but now I'm feeling better