It's upsetting when my bf aunt tells him to not do a lot cause he works all week and to let me and his mom do all the…

It's upsetting when my bf aunt tells him to not do a lot cause he works all week and to let me and his mom do all the packing. Even though she knows I'm having health issues where I can't do a lot and my doctor even said to not do any of the moving. Also, everyone's telling me to go through my stuff and get rid of things but nobody else. Like why do I have to get rid of my clothes and belongings. Sorry I have a lot of stuff but I'm a young girl and I use everything I own. Not like I just have it to have it. This is why I get so stressed and upset.