Never dealt with such a dysfunctional family in my life 🙄 no ones fam is perfect , but I don't have…

Never dealt with such a dysfunctional family in my life 🙄 no ones fam is perfect , but I don't have anything to say to my S/O family. Everything is fine and dandy when I'm there, but when I decided to leave today that's when everything was said. For this to be the first grand on both sides his fam is a little too controlling for me and has gotten upset w/me because he has put them in their place. Everyone is making this out to be my fault when they are not understanding it's NOT about them anymore he has his own family now ,as a man its his job to protect/ defend us and to let them know when they are wrong . 😡 I'm so over this crap!