So main reason my mom was able to take my kids & watch them for me while I'm here is because they go…
So main reason my mom was able to take my kids & watch them for me while I'm here is because they go to school.. But now my kids don't have school for like almost 2 weeks & my mom works & my sister goes to school.. & it wouldn't be fair for my sister to miss all that time from school cause she has to stay with my boys & my moms job is being a pain with her scheduling.. Idk what to do cus I have nobody else to watch them but them & myself...
Jess·
I personally have never used it, but I've heard good things. Care.com it's worth giving it a shot if you can't find someone you know. You can meet them and have a interview, have them meet your kids and see how they interact etc. just throwing that option out there :)
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I wish I had the money for it but I don't so its not an option for me 😕 @missjess
Jess·
Aw ok totally understandable.
zelina·
No one can drop them off to you with in the day and they pick them up at nite hospital here lets your kids stay with you with in the day time
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
I'm an hour away @mamaof06
zelina·
Same here shit everything is about an hour or so away from me how long more its hard when things like this happens and u have kids already
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
It's very hard, the only thing I can do is ask for is to be discharge & come back once they go back to school. That's the solution to my problem @mamaof06
Jess·
What about your S.O family? Are they able to help out?
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
He's not the biological dad of the boys + he works & has no family besides his cousins that he barely talks to @missjess
Jess·
Idk what I'm going to do when I move in with my boyfriend. He lives 3 hours away and I won't have anyone up there, but his parents.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
Atleast you'll have his parents support & help that's if you guys get along, it's hard when you really don't have family around when you need it @missjess
Jess·
It's going to be hard. His parents live like 45 mins away. But I'm sure they'll be as helpful as they can. This is my first pregnancy so having to do it pretty much alone is kind of scary to think about. My boyfriend works 10+ hour days 5 days a week. He has 2 children already so he's a little more advanced in fatherhood.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
You'll be ok don't worry about it. Yea it'll deff be a little easy on him but if it's been years since having a new born let me tell you we don't remember everything lol @missjess
Jess·
Haha is youngest is going to be 7
Jess·
And they haven't lived in NY since she was like 2.
Stephanie·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего
It's been a while then lol. I think I got this but most likely I'll be on here asking questions @missjess
Jess·
Yeah same here girl!