I see so many post on here about ladies having issues with mother in laws (or bfs mama ect.). You…

I see so many post on here about ladies having issues with mother in laws (or bfs mama ect.). You know it seems alot more common than I was ever aware. In our house we have issues with the grandparents(they raised hubby).. not the parents. But same concept. I wonder why in laws feel the need to butt in and try to control everything when it comes to babies being born. And it seems mostly the man's mama or grandma. In our situation it's because they see us as kids and decisions we make are out of defiance not because we are being adults/parents and it's also due to whatever entitlement they believe they have. I'm sorry but just because you had sex with some and it lead to making me or my husband... and then we had sex with eachother and it lead to making a baby... does not give you any "rights" to OUR baby. But then again I'm a really selfish mama when it comes to my babies.