So ladies I have a personal but serious question. My boyfriend and j have been together for almost 2…
So ladies I have a personal but serious question. My boyfriend and j have been together for almost 2 years , I used to initiate the sex , I was confident, felt sexy and always felt into it. Now that I am pregnant my sexual confidence and my sexiness has gone way down, now I feel like we just have sex for him, I never get mine (if you know what I mean) he says I'm " playing games" but it's not a game to me! I just don't get excited as quickly or easily anymore :/ what do I do?!
Jennifer spoores·
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I'm the same way I don't even want to have sex anymore I just do it for him I love him dearly I just don't want sex hopefully my sex drive returns after I have my little boy
Monica·
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It's normal, especially if this is your first baby, our body is transforming and usually we're not used to seeing these changes, plus all the different hormones going through our bodies. You just need to find your sexy and see what works and what doesn't. You'll get it back.
Takira·
Мама сына (9 лет), беременна (40 нед.)
sex right now is gross and so uncomfortable. i have way too much body going on so its like work vs. pleasure. i cant wait to drop it like its hot on his ass lhh seriously tho..good luck...
Keairra·
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my thoughts exactly. I always tell him "you never let me get mine it's always about you 😳"
Abby·
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@junetwofive16, and we are the bitches and the problem...when we aren't doing anything wrong...they can't just leave us hanging because we may not feel into it at the flip of a switch anymore, foreplay isn't just for him !
Keairra·
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Yesssssssssss!!! & then when I complain he just goes limp & sometimes don't wanna do it anymore. he says I "killed the mood" but you're killin mine not being considerate
Kimber miller·
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I definitely go through that. since I've gotten. thicker all around and my belly is growing, I don't feel like I used to. But just remember that just because you feel that way doesn't mean he sees you that way at all. my man loves my body, and I have researched a lot that a females pregnant body is more attractive to the dad because she is growing his baby. I'd also recommend taking your time. lots of foreplay and things you enjoy. don't be afraid to speak up about what you want and control the pace at which things go
Rebecca Scott·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Tell him he needs to take his time or you aren't gonna be doing it at all. Explain to him how you feel. Communication is everything. I was the complete opposite. I felt so much sexier when I was pregnant and now have lower self esteem than I've ever had. You're growing a life! You're powerful, you're a goddess, and you look beautiful!