to all the ladies that have an awesome support system and someone in their life that understands you and why your acting…
to all the ladies that have an awesome support system and someone in their life that understands you and why your acting hormonal and doesn't hold it against you I applaud you and want to tell you how lucky you are. hold onto that person... this pregnant has destroyed me as person because I've been dealing with depressing the past month along with the stresses of possibly losing our rent house and me not being able to find a job but I'm the bad guy because of all of it. I'm look at as the bitch of a fiance because I have such an attitude now and I'm not affectionate anymore and his mother told him that she feels sorry for him that he has to live with someone that is depressed because it's gotta be hard on him and the fact that I no longer want to have sex is a sign I don't wanna be with him because her husband (soon to be ex) quit having sex with her so she knew right then and there he was done with her. I wish someone could sit down and explain to him what depression on top of stress during pregnancy does to a person sex is not my top priority but he believes that when someone stops wanting you it's to hard to be with them and it's just not right he said good luck finding a man that wants to be with someone who doesn't want to sleep with them. I have been with this man for 2 years and known him for 4 we are engaged and he knows this depression is messing with me but because his mother is telling him things he fails to want to understand it or where I'm coming from. it hurts being told if I don't have sex with him then we just shouldn't be together. I never said this was a forever thing but it's uncomfortable for me right now and I have alot of shit going on but I told him if him getting in my pants would make him feel better than he was welcome to do so and he told me no if it's not enjoyable for you then I'm not forcing you.... then don't get pissed when I tell you no because it isn't enjoyable. sorry for the rant.
Aaliyah·
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have you tried telling him how you feel? he should be more sensitive and at least try to understand
Amanda·
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that's my problem I don't know how to explain these feelings to him because I've never been in a depression this bad so it's hard to explain stuff to him when I don't even understand it. @atw2016 but like I said he knows the real person I am and this is not me but he believes what his mother tells him and it's a bunch of bull
Aaliyah·
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I think you should sit him down and try. I know it won't be easy and his mom needs to stay out of it
Simone·
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im not dealing with depression or many stresses and sex has been outta the picture. to try and explain to someone who cant wrap their head around our hormones and how they effect us is pretty difficult. Im typically a pretty chill person and when im pregnant i can be fucking nuts at times. i think the best thing is just to be open and honest with him without blowing up and disregard whatever his mom is saying, its not her relationship & he must love you for who you are or he wouldnt be marrying you. im sorry your going through this. pregnancy isnt always rainbows & butterflies. it can fuck with our heads big time. good luck mama.