I hate to see and hear my SO struggling at work even when he feels someone will take his job because…

I hate to see and hear my SO struggling at work even when he feels someone will take his job because of the color of the skin or some new crap pop off 😞 I want to work to help him out but he refused to allow me to work plus with his cousin staying with us for awhile hopefully it's two weeks only and he get himself together. My SO got him a job where he works but ugh! I made the rules clear and I know hubby will make sure he get save enough so he can leave. All I can do is pray and keep the house clean 😞😞😞😞