Have any of you ladies, first time mommies or second, experienced loss while expecting? How did you…

I'm sorry I lost my daughter's god father about a month ago. I was so distraught that when I came home I thought my kitten had gotten out of my apartment and I started freaking out and cried for hours. It turns out she was stuck under my dresser. Loss is hard but just think of it like they're in a better place. I feel like he's watching over her now and is her angel. Nothing can heal you but acceptance and time. Hope things get better for you

When I was was pregnant with my son I lost my cousin in an a pretty sad and violent way. It was pretty hard to keep myself from calm, to sleep, eat, do anything. After a while I realized that I gained another angel to watch over me and my son. Things will get better soon

I lost my 11 month old puppy to Parvo just a few days before my birthday this past August, I let myself cry, I still break down really badly every month or so because I miss her, it's the dog in my picture. So go ahead and cry it's alright.

Thank you very much. It just hurts too much and I'm trying my best to cope with it, thank you @rskille

Yea, I force myself to eat. I don't feel like eating or sleeping at all. So I force myself to eat for the baby. As for sleep, I'll stay up forever until I can't fight the sleep anymore and then I'll knock out. It's bad, but it's the only way I can get some shut eye right now @kerragannicole

Parvo is horrible :\ my cousin went through it with her puppy and it was sad :\ I'm trying to look at it through a good perspective, like he's not in pain anymore. And we were with him until the very end. Whatever he needed. I do prefer to let it out because I don't want it staying bottled in @pandabear911

And I'm so glad you are all in a better place now. I hope to get there someday too @rskille @kerragannicole @pandabear911

I was the same way with sleep. I was visiting my son's dad's parents in Mexico when it happened so it made it harder because I was unable to switch my ticket to come home sooner to attend his memorial. @pikapal

I understand my fur baby means so much to me too. Try taking a warm bath or doing anything that will help you relax, it's ok to cry just know when it's too much for the baby. The funeral and the viewing were the hardest cause they were both open caskets and I've never been that close to a dead body the baby was not happy she was all curled up in a ball so I had to force myself to relax. And I've never seen my SO cry like that he was his best friend we would have nothing if it wasn't for him. I guess what I'm trying to say is let yourself mourn but at the same time try to move on if that makes sense. Everyone is different so don't feel bad just handle it in a healthy way, your baby will be completely fine.

I lost my cat that we had for 9 years in the beginning of the year he 1 month of being gone just passed and honestly it was one of the hardest things ever I never knew how hard it would be, we knew we would lose her cause she was super old and starting to get skinny but one morning she just collapsed and it was extremely hard to just watch her lay there breathing hard and there was nothing we could do 😕 we ended up taking her to the vet to put her down and the vet had told us she had kidney failure and she was suffering, all my family and I could do was just cry. We didn't want to keep her alive for any longer we stayed with her for only a minute and asked the doctor to come back in and put her down because we couldn't watch her suffer anymore. It still hurts me till this day even just writing this makes me emotional 😢 but at least I know she's in peace and no longer suffering 💕

Sorry I hadn't replied. It was just a tough day and reading this made it even tougher because I felt like I could relate to it. It happened early morning last Thursday. We was one his side and couldn't get up, like if he were having a seizure. We knew the inevitable was gonna happen but we still drove to the hospital. He passed away in the car though, I was holding him. And it was honestly one of the toughest things I've had to go through. When we got there, we took a moment before getting out of the car. Inside though they were so sweet. We decided to get him cremated so we could bring a little part of him back home. I honestly miss him so much. The day I posted this was just one week after he had passed and it was tough. The one thing I've been doing is trying to keep myself busy, and lately I've been drawing. Most of my drawings are of him, and it really helps calm me. Honesty, thank you for what you wrote. I can honestly say I understand because I do 😞 its heart breaking, but I do believe I'll see him again, I miss his cuddles 😢 and I'm also glad that you are doing better. Also, definitely yes, he was barely able to hop so it helps knowing he's no longer in that pain. He was a little fighter though, because he pushed through even when they said he wouldn't, but I guess it just got to be too much for him 😢 and now I'm getting emotional over here 💔 but both of our fur babies are at peace now 💕 @vaneessaxx

He was on his side** not we was one