Cherrelle
shanai12
Cherrelle

The struggle of TTC is super real!

11.02.2016
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mzdiva916
Kehalilah·Мама подростка

I lost my baby at 17 weeks(it stopped growing at 14 weeks) it's been very hard for me. I am currently ttc going on month #8. Its a struggle,but at the end when we do get our BFP it will be well worth it. Please keel your heads up and remain positive and pray.

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shanai12

Thanks. I felt the same way you did when you had your loss. Just makes me feel like less of a woman but there will be better days.

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jojojujuandscarlett
Sierra·Мама троих детей

I know it feels like your body is failing you and that your doing something wrong but you have no way or control to find out what or if there is anything wrong. For me that's how I felt anyway and I would always get my hopes up and then get a BFN on my pregnancy test. And when I lost my little boy and twin girl and boy it was a major blow to me, my self esteem and just my whole life and being , like I'm supposed to be able to make life I'm supposed to be able to carry a baby like this is what my body is made to do, why am I different what an I doing wrong or what's wrong with me. But it slowly gets easier it does I don't think it will ever go away the pain I mean from losing our babies but when I changed my thinking and relaxed about it and just let it happen it did , I also started eating a better and I started taking prenatal vitamins just because I heard it helped you get everything your body would need for baby. They're all kinds of study's that have been done saying when you calm your nerves and stuff down the woman gets pregnant even women with fertility issues did. I hope it all works out I'm sure you will and I'm so sorry for your loss. @shanai12

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shanai12

@jojojujuandscarlett,

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shanai12

@Jo Congratulations and thank you.

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shanai12

@jojojujuandscarlett, I'm trying after a miscarriage from last year. It doesn't get any easier.

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jojojujuandscarlett
Sierra·Мама троих детей

Yes I completely understand where you are coming from! It took me and my husband 5 years and failed fertility treatments and I had 2 miscarriages after the 5 years and when we said forget it if it happens it happens if not then we'll be okay too and then bam I'm 39 weeks with a healthy baby girl with zero complications. I think it does have a lot to do with your mind set babe. Sending baby dust your way GOOD LUCK! KEEP TRYING DON'T GIVE UP

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