I'm sorry, but I really hate when I see people saying their newborns are spoiled and that they let…

I'm sorry, but I really hate when I see people saying their newborns are spoiled and that they let them cry it out. First of all, there's no such thing as a spoiled newborn. There's literally studies that prove you can't spoil a newborn baby. They need security. They need that bond that's created from cuddling and loving them. And even if all those studies are wrong, why the fuck did you have kid, if not spoil them and give them all the love and affection they need?