any mommies who are doing this process without their SO around for any reason?? i could use some…

I've been on my own sorta since October bc my SO works out of town and I'm back at home so if you need anyone to talk to I'm here! Just message me!

thank you! i will dang sure be messaging youuu. its only been 2 days for me being by myself and it sucks but i do get to talk to him everyday ! that helps @shelbyjo

Well mine is here and lives with me but we aren't together and he says he doesn't want too be, just wants us to focus on our baby... So he is never here or takes me anywhere. I feed myself and if I'm in pain I massage myself.

im sorry @megbaby07 that sounds terrible.

It's rough on me and my depression but I know things happen ya know? Lol but I know how it feels to be alone period lol I'm home alone all the time. And it's tearing me apart

yeah i was trying not to be alone the last two days. stayed with my grandma and sister but my SO told me I need to get my butt home and try to relax and not stress. now im here and crying because he isnt here:/ it feels horribke

@megbaby07,

Your welcome!! And oh yes it does! What's been helping me is trying to keep busy with baby stuff like looking up things we need to buy, and I made a lot of decorations for my baby shower so my mind isn't on it so much it's helped some

Plus I keep thinking its for the best for our family right now, he's making a good living Doing what he does over there compared to back home where we would be constantly struggling to make ends meet.

yeah im going to definitely do my best to keep busy! @shelbyjo

my fiancé is away on active duty right now and has missed all of my pregnancy so far, but he should be getting home soon. you're more than welcome to message me mama, sometimes things are hard when you're by yourself

@brittneylove, well I think it's good you are trying to be surrounded so your not alone. Definitely keep busy, thanks what I try to do

oh my! @mrsthig im hoping my SO will be back home before the baby is born. i couldnt imagine him being gone from me that long! im sorry that he hasnt been there the way he should for you either.

I'm doing this all alone as well really hoping my SO will be home before our son is born I know how you feel

fingers are crossed! and anytime love! @mrsthig

@rcbaby1, it seriously just hurts