was listening to Adele hello and for some reason had me thinking about my 3 sons and raising them I'm scared to raise…

was listening to Adele hello and for some reason had me thinking about my 3 sons and raising them I'm scared to raise all boys they already don't listen to me unless I have to raise my voice or threaten to take something away I'm scared at how they will act as preteens and teens ,no matter what they are just stubborn and it's so beyond hard to correct their spoiled ways because my dad does spoil them and let them act wild and be free at his house but our house is small and we can't have that behavior not even that just listening in general,then all that talk about how they are "black men" and things will harder for them and they have to meet certain expectations blah blah the future scares me I hope they straighten out and are good behaved stay in school and have great careers... they have their step dad as a manly role model I still worry sometime I feel he may not know how to "raise" boys idk what I'm doing I guess just winging it and hoping for the best the way my four year old has been acting at days scares me most right now he so rough and aggressive for no reason and has been wrestling and being rough on a little girl their he never does this at home....