I hate how people think I'm completely helpless being pregnant. stop treating me like I can't do…
I hate how people think I'm completely helpless being pregnant. stop treating me like I can't do anything ! I drop something on the floor and everyone comes running to pick it up for me. or at work people ask if I wanna stay at the counter while they run around the store putting stuff away. I'm like really? I'm 27 weeks. let me work and walk around while I'm still able to do it comfortably. it feels better to walk around than to just sit there all night. ugh
Stasja·
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this. I agree so much
missing325user·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
whaaaat? girl sorry not sorry!!! I've never had it that easy so maybe I don't know what your going through, however not having help like that makes me think your crazy for having it and not seeing how fortunate you are ..
Samantha·
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just bc I'm pregnant does not make me incapable of doing my job. I know that some women have more problems through pregnancy and their doctors may recommend not working past a certain point. but I am healthy and able to continue to work as of now so I don't want to take advantage of being pregnant like some women do. it's not a disability. @mamacita.joyy.alba
Erika·
Oh my yes!! My daughter is almost 11 months and still too little for a bigger car seat so she's in the pumpkin one still and since I'm pregnant with twins, people think I'm not capable of being able to carry a car seat 😑 and I'm only 17 weeks and 4 days! Lol I'm very capable of doing things and it's so frustrating
Samantha·
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@ehughes41, yes! like once you get bigger I'm sure you'll want the help. I mean that's how I feel. but at this point I'm not huge. I'm not that uncomfortable yet so I want to continue to live life normally until I'm giant and can't.
Erika·
I agree! I wasn't super big with my daughter so I was pretty much able to keep doing things, but I'm I'm going to be huge with the twins, I'm already way bigger than I was with my first, so I'm definitely gonna want help once I reach that point. But let me be independent while I still can be! Lol
dylisha·
Мама двоих (1 год, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
i dont complain at all. I love the attention. Only when it gets out of hand I have a problem or issue
Samantha·
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everyone has their own opinion on it which is fine. I'm just speaking mine. personally I don't like people rushing to help me with things I can do on my own. now someone wants to help me lift something heavy ? sure I'll accept that gladly. but I drop a pen and 3 people run to pick it up? no thanks. I can easily squat down and get it myself right now.
jamie·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (33 нед.)
Yes I'm the same way like I know my limits an what I can an cannot do! if I need help I'll ask but I can do basic stuff myself my husband knows so he won't bug me but everyone else does an it's like I'm pregnant not disable. yes the help is nice but I'm the type to do things myself unless I know it's bad for baby.