This is my second baby, he/she is doing good and growing. I find myself not excited about this baby…
This is my second baby, he/she is doing good and growing. I find myself not excited about this baby at all, I don't want another baby. When this baby is here my little boy will only be 11 months and I feel like I ruined his life, like he will never feel mama's love like he needs too. My husband is excited and happy, he wants a girl, but I'm scared I'm not gonna want anything to do with this baby. My friends mean well and they try to cheer me up but it doesn't help. I don't know what to do about how I feel about this baby and it hurts my heart! 😭💔💔😢
Deborah lamar·
Мама троих детей
don't ever say that do you really want to hold a child you gave birth knowing that you were saying that you didn't want it that is awful I had a bby when she turned 3 months I found out I was pregnant again God makes no mistakes honey I'm praying get pregnant would love to be in your shoes be greatful and smile mama it will get better
Sunny·
Мама сына (3 года)
not to sound bitchy but you obviously knew the circumstances of having unprotected sex, you made your bed now you have to lay in it. pretty selfish of you to not want a human being that you created, dont take what other ppl wish to have for granted
Abigail Overton·
Мама сына-младенца
I know, it kills me that feel like this and I hate myself for it and I know God has a plan and I pray that this baby is healthy and that these are just hormones or something
Sunny·
Мама сына (3 года)
im sure its hormones and you will grow to love the shit outta this baby! think of it on the plus side, with them being so close theyll bond alot
Abigail Overton·
Мама сына-младенца
I know the circumstances of having unprotected sex and yes I will lay in this bed but that does mean that my feelings are selfish and yes I know other women are not able to have children of their own and like I said it kills me to feel like this so don't think I'm taking this for granted when I know very well the pain of others
Abigail Overton·
Мама сына-младенца
and that is what I'm hoping that this is all in my head and that I will this baby with all my heart and this one and my boy will be close
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (15 нед.)
I just wanted to reach out to you and say you are not being selfish or inconsiderate. You are brave for opening yourself up to opinions. I agree with the poster who said God makes no mistakes. It is very true. I also know how guilty pregnancy can make you the 2nd time around. You have a baby at home that you only wanted to shower with love and attention....what great mom wouldn't want that? But you aren't allotted a set serving of love at birth. The amount of love you are capable of having multiplies with every blessing and every praise to our one true King. I know you are scared now. I know you feel guilty. I'm here to say, you are not. This is a normal thing that can happen to mothers during pregnancy. It's called prepartum depression. As for you who decided to tear this girl down, would you do the same for those with POSTpartum depression? Probably not. Hopefully not. Ladies, lift each other up.
liz·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I understand what you are trying to say. You want to give the baby you have all of you. Everything. You may feel afraid the child you have will be neglected for love, attention etc.. I had the same fears before but don't worry sweetheart, you will be just fine and so will both of your babies. Your motherly love kicks in and will shower both babies with everything they need❤️❤️ hang in there momma you will love them both more than you ever imagined possible.