anxiety is horrid. 22 weeks so past the half way mark. dont have babys crib yet, dont have a place to live for when she…
anxiety is horrid. 22 weeks so past the half way mark. dont have babys crib yet, dont have a place to live for when she is born cuz we cant stay at my parents house much longer. i ask my husband what can we afford and where he wants me to look and he says he dont know or dont wanna talk bout it. i ask if we are going to buy or rent and he dont know that either....ummm ok we have roughly 4 months to figure this shit out and im tired of hearing that every place i find aint good enough but he aint lookin ever. when is reality gonna hit that we cannot stay here by any means and dont have anywhere to go at this point in time?! im scared that we wont have anywhere to go and i lose her all because he is draggin his feet not wantin to see the big picture thats right infront of him
Jasmine·
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I don't have a crib... all I have is a night stand and a dresser and some clothing
Sarah·
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I totally understand. I feel the same way, I am 21 weeks 3 days and we have no where to bring babies home to or anything we need for them. so much to do!
josephine·
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@sarahplus2 its seriously killer! and try to get him to understand and he just gets mad. lf it wasnt for certain family issues we would be ok but sadly people made mistakes in the past that affect them and those around them for the rest their life :/ and it dont help that he wants to build up his jeep and spend the extra money on it rather then save up for down payment or move in fees or whatnot
Sarah·
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@krstokes2016, it really is. my boyfriend tries to help but he wants to spend money to hopefully make more and I feel like we just need to save, period! we always just fight when I bring it up, so stressful. people tell me things will just work out but it never feels like that.
josephine·
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@sarahplus2, exactly! when we got together he was good bout money. its life after we got married and found out bout pur daughter hes just throwing away money. when i worked at the gun range he was cheap but now on bed rest and high risk he is just pissin it away and dont listen to facts
Sarah·
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@krstokes2016, I just don't know what will be the wake up call for him.